Let’s face it! Breakups are not easy. Nobody wishes to go through one. However, as hard as it is, it’s better to end a relationship if you don’t see a future with him.
Having said that, a breakup is not the answer to every fight. Often, our emotions get the best of us, and we end up making rash decisions. So, is it really time for you to break up?.
Or are you simply feeling down because of an argument over the weekend?
Well, you can take our reliable Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend quiz to know the answer.
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Let’s start easy. How long have you two been dating?
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A couple of months/ Less than a year
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More than a year but on and off
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More than a year or two
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More than three years
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When you look into the future, do you see him in it?
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To be honest, nope! I don’t see him.
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Hmmm, I’m afraid not
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I can’t say
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Yes. He’s a big part of it.
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How do you usually tackle arguments and fights?
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Just stop talking for days and rekindle once we have calmed down on our own
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I don’t think we’ve ever come to a conclusion in any argument. We just sweep the matter under the rug.
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It depends on what the argument is about. Some days, we’re calm and tackling the matter like two adults. Other days, we just fight like cats and dogs.
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We communicate, listen to each other, and take turns in putting our opinions on the table.
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Do you feel like your other half gives you the emotional support you need?
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I’m not comfortable seeking any kind of support from him
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Well, my friends are here for that!
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Yeah, sometimes.
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Absolutely, we both are emotionally supportive towards each other.
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You know that “lovey-dovey phase” during the start of a romantic relationship? How long did that last for the two of you?
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A couple of days I think
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Maybe a week or two!
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Precisely, a month
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We’re very much still in that phase. Hehe!
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What kind of arguments do you usually have?
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Inadequate attention/ jealousy/ expectations/ control
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Money/ future plans/ career goals
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Responsibilities/ Communication problem
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Hmmm… I can’t put my finger on it. Just the usual arguments that any normal couple would have.
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What do you guys mostly talk about?
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Just casual stuffs
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I think we talk more about other people’s life than ours. lol
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The latest movie/game releases/ where to party next/ what to do for the weekend
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We tend to discuss about what we did during the day, we share experiences, talk about the future, and more.
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Is there anything you don’t like about him in particular?
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Yes. I hate how clingy and needy he gets at times.
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He is a control freak!
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Hmmm, maybe he can make an effort to dress better
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Well, I’ll have to think hard on this one. I want to say ‘none’ for now. He’s perfect for me!
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Do you daydream about your future life with him? How does that feel?
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Nope, I don’t have time for that.
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I hardly do. I just find it difficult to place him in my life.
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Yeah, when I imagine my life with him, it’s just happiness there! None of the negativities that I’m feeling right now exist in my dreams.
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Yes, absolutely! I’m always filled with excitement and joy when I dream my life with him.
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How would you describe your current relationship with him?
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It’s “draining”
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Honestly, it feels like I’m walking on shells
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It seems dull. We seem to have lost the spark.
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Filled with love, happiness, compassion, intimacy, and closeness.
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Do you discuss marriage, kids, money, and career with your guy?
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Lol, are those topics that need to be discussed with your man? Because, I don’t!
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No, we don’t talk about such matters.
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We used to. Not anymore!
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Yes, 100%.
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Do you feel like your partner has changed lately?
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Yeah, it’s like I don’t even know him anymore.
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Yes, and the changes aren’t doing any good to our relationship.
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I can’t say.
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For the better? Yes! We both did actually, for the betterment of our relationship.
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Be honest! How does your partner treat you during an argument?
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He gets aggressive mostly
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He hits below the belt
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Gives me the cold shoulder
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He’s very understanding, reasonable, and treats me with respect even when we’re arguing.
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Are you comfortable talking about anything and everything with him?
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Let me clear that, we hardly talk these days!
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No, I have many secrets from him.
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We used to talk about everything initially. These days, we hardly spend time with each other.
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Yes, why wouldn’t I be comfortable! He’s my boo.
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Do you secretly wish that you were dating someone else?
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Honestly? I wish I was dating no one.
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Yes, I do.
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I don’t think so
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No, why would I wish that!
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What’s the best part about being in a relationship with your boyfriend?
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I can’t wait to get out of it.
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I guess nothing
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To be able to talk to someone whenever I want to
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To have a support system
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What does your friends think of him?
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They think we should break up
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My friends don’t like him much
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They like him and think he is sweet
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They want us to get married already
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Everybody has an ideal relationship picture. What’s yours like? How would you like your partner to be?
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He should be loving and loyal
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I just want him to be fun and have the looks
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I want him to be compassionate and mature
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I am already in my ideal relationship
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If you could change one thing in your boyfriend, what would it be?
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His entire self
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The way he talks, dresses, eats, walks, lol.
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The way he argues.
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He is perfect for me!
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So, you finally break the sad news to him – I want to break up! How is he likely to react?
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He won’t mind I think
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Only he knows how he’d react
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I hope he’ll be sad
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He’ll be devastated if I say that to him. I would be too.
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