Everything about him is great: how he acts; how he looks, but there’s one thing that’s missing, and that’s his attention.
If the man of your dreams has been ignoring you, then you may feel a little helpless about what you can do to grab his attention.
In today’s Why Is He Ignoring Me Quiz, we’re going to ask a few questions that can help determine why he may be ignoring you.
By the end of it, you should have a better idea of what you can do to get his attention back, or you’ll at least know that you should try and seek that attention elsewhere.
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Question of
What’s the first thing you do when you see him?
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Run up to him and try to get his attention
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Watch him longingly
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Try to get him to interact without success
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Be surprised by his lack of a reaction to you
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Does he talk to you when you’re around him?
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Yeah, but only to tell me to stay away.
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Yeah, but he’s never very enthusiastic.
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He usually seems distracted.
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No, he doesn’t talk to me.
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What do his friends think of you?
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They think you’re weird.
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They don’t think you’ll be a good fit for him.
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They tell you to give him some space.
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They’re relatively indifferent.
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What kind of history do you have with him?
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We’ve never really spoken to one another.
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We used to speak more frequently but now we don’t.
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I’ve been close to him for a long time.
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We’ve spoken from time to time but we’ve never really been close.
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Question of
What has happened in his life recently?
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He just went through a breakup
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He just achieved one of his goals
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He’s dealing with a death in the family
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Nothing has really happened
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Question of
How do you feel about him?
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He’s the most important thing in the world
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He seems like someone I’d like to know
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I want to solve his problems
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I try to get his attention, but he never seems willing to provide it
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Question of
Are there any other girls in his life?
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Yeah, but they’re just friends
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Yeah, he knows a lot of girls
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He only has one or two other friends that are girls
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No, he doesn’t have many friends that are girls
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Question of
What is his tone like when you talk to him?
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He seems a little weird
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He doesn’t seem to care very much
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He seems distracted
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He doesn’t really talk back to me
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Question of
Has he ever showed signs of being interested in you?
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Yeah, he was interested before.
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No, he’s never showed any signs of it
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He used to be interested and then suddenly started acting cold.
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No, he doesn’t interact with me much.
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Question of
How much free time do you think he has?
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I think he has plenty of time.
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He spends his time around other girls
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I don’t see him as often as I used to
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I don’t know
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Have you ever confronted him about your feelings (as in how you’re feeling ignored by him)?
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Yes, that’s all I do 24/7.
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I want to, but he doesn’t have enough time to sit down and listen.
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I did recently. But he was lost in his own thoughts.
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I haven’t.
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Question of
Does he usually avoid eye contact when you guys talk?
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I’m too lost in talking to him. So, I haven’t noticed that yet.
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He doesn’t intentionally do that. But again, he’s always either on the phone or watching TV.
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Mostly not
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Nope
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Does he flirt back when you do? You know what I mean – the teasing, playful acts of love, captivating eye contact, etc.
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I find myself doing it more than him.
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Never. Instead, he asks me to stop.
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Sometimes.
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Honestly? It depends on his mood.
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Question of
How long has he been ‘ignoring’ you?
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Less than two days
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It’s been too long; I can’t remember.
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Less than a week.
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I really don’t know. Sometimes, I even wonder if he is actually ignoring me or I’m the one over-thinking. Heh!
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Question of
What kind of mood is he usually in these days?
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Annoyed (mostly at my behavior)
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Indifference
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Unhappy and Tensed (not particularly at me)
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I really can’t pick a particular kind of mood.
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Question of
Does he keep your messages on ‘seen’?
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Most of the time. (But I don’t blame him; I actually text him a lot. Haha)
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Nearly every time. Sometimes, not even a simple OKAY from his side.
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Yes, sometimes.
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Yeah, but only when he is busy.
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Question of
Assuming he is unhappy and detached from you these days, does he seem to be in this same mood even when he is around his friends?
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Can’t say
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Nope. Surprisingly, he gets into a really good mood around his friends.
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Yeah, pretty much the same.
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He isn’t unhappy or detached from me.
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Question of
Did he recently have a disagreement with his family? Perhaps a tiff with a friend? Or, maybe he is under excess stress at work?
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I don’t know about that.
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No, I feel ignored for no reason.
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Yeah, he told me about it once.
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Not really.
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Question of
Assuming you’ve told him you feel ignored, how did he take it?
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He told me he needed space.
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He got mad at me and left the conversation hanging.
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He did understand where I was coming from.
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He was surprised and had no clue I was feeling this way.
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Question of
How often do you contact him?
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If you want me to be honest, a heck lot!
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All I know is I contact him more than he does.
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Whenever I feel like.
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I can’t say.
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